tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29282660583203059012024-03-05T09:23:44.729+00:00The Moonlit DoorFlash Fiction, Poetry, News, Events...Lisamarie Lambhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13044677750551861221noreply@blogger.comBlogger145125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2928266058320305901.post-22042568511844109342016-03-13T10:21:00.001+00:002016-03-13T10:21:04.237+00:00New WebsiteIt's finally here - my new website. Now that I'm a full time freelance writer, I thought it would be a good idea to have an actual website so that potential clients can see what I offer and contact me easily.<br />
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Plus it gives me more credibility, and makes me look like a lot more professional.<br />
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So there will be a lot less on this blog from now on - but don't worry; I have a new blog over at the new website, so you can still keep up to date with my general thoughts and rambling ideas.<br />
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It's here: <a href="http://www.lisamarielamb.co.uk/">www.lisamarielamb.co.uk</a> and I hope you enjoy it!Lisamarie Lambhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13044677750551861221noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2928266058320305901.post-58995923123790549862016-02-14T15:46:00.000+00:002016-02-14T15:46:19.874+00:00Award-Winning Journalist Gives Prize Money to Charity<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 6pt; vertical-align: baseline;">
<span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;"><span style="color: white;"><a href="http://journalisted.com/moira-kerr" target="_blank">Moira Kerr</a> is something
quite special, not only in terms of her writing, but in terms of her humanity as
well. The freelance journalist who hails from <a href="http://www.oban.org.uk/" target="_blank">Oban</a> won both the feature writer
of the year award (this was thanks to three articles written for the <a href="http://www.dailyrecord.co.uk/" target="_blank">Daily Record</a>)
and journalist of the year award for her diverse portfolio of articles, news
reports, and features at the <a href="http://www.pressball.info/" target="_blank">Highlands and Islands Media Awards</a>.</span></span></div>
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<span style="color: white;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">In her spare time, Moira
is a volunteer fundraising secretary for the </span></span><a href="http://www.obanlifeboat.co.uk/" style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;" target="_blank">Oban RNLI Lifeboat</a><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, and so she
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appreciated the awards, and was excited to receive them – but that it was all
down to her contacts, kept in her Smartphone, who kept her up to date with
everything that was happening all across the Highlands and Islands. She called
these contacts her ‘phone-a-friends’, which caused a laugh, but which is also
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Lisamarie Lambhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13044677750551861221noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2928266058320305901.post-87012201223597291342016-01-24T12:34:00.001+00:002016-02-07T19:41:36.391+00:00New: Trip Trap<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">It's been a while, but I now have a new book out. <i>Trip Trap</i> is a horror story that incorporates fairytale themes and sets them firmly in the British countryside. Think <i>Midsomer Murders</i> crossed with <i>The Three Billy Goats Gruff</i> and you'll be on your way to an idea of what this new story might be about.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Who's that trip trapping over my bridge? It's the echo of a childhood bedtime story read on a mother's knee, but this story is definitely not for children. Eliza is excited when she gets her first assignment as a newspaper journalist, even if it does mean she has to travel to the back of beyond to get the story. But with a slew of missing persons and some weird weather warnings, there is definitely something going on in the little village of Bailby. The villagers stick together, and local policeman, Fraser, is Eliza's only ally. As they grow closer, something else is ripping the village apart - and it's coming to gobble them up...</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><i>Trip Trap </i>is available from <a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Trip-Trap-Lisamarie-Lamb/dp/1523383526/">Amazon.co.uk</a> and <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Trip-Trap-Lisamarie-Lamb/dp/1523383526/">Amazon.com</a> in both eBook and printed formats. It is published by <a href="http://www.jellingtonashton.com/">J. Ellington Ashton</a>.</span><br />
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<br />Lisamarie Lambhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13044677750551861221noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2928266058320305901.post-39514874465492107152016-01-17T11:06:00.000+00:002016-02-07T19:51:52.169+00:00Complaining Is Essential<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<i><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Don't complain. </span></i><br />
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It sounds like a simple <a href="http://www.philosophy.ox.ac.uk/">philosophy</a> for life, a mantra that can be repeated over and over until it sticks and no more ungrateful, complaining words come out of your mouth.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">It sounds like bliss, and at first glance the above quote does seem to be a good one. Don't like something? Change it. Don't complain.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">On second glance, thinking about it, changing a situation isn't always possible without a bit of <a href="http://www.dearcustomerrelations.com/best-ever-complaint-letters/">complaint</a>.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">But it's okay, because of the second part of the quote - if you can't change the situation that's making you unhappy, change how you think about it.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Gotcha.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Only, actually, I don't get it at all.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">I can't suddenly make myself like something that I didn't before. If I don't like it, I don't like it. I have my reasons. It's not just a matter of looking at whatever it is from a different angle and realising that my original thoughts were wrong all the time (oh look! Actually the fact that my car broke down and there are no buses and I have a <a href="http://www.nhs.uk/conditions/broken-leg/Pages/Introduction.aspx">broken leg</a> so I can't walk anyway is actually fine! It's great! I was just looking at my situation from the wrong angle! Now that I've changed my attitude all is well!).</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">I think complaining is essential in life.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">I don't mean complaining for the sake of it, just for fun, but if something is really wrong, and no amount of attitude changing will right that wrong, then a complaint may well help you. And, although it may not feel like it at the time, if the complaint is aimed at you it can help you too. Don't just assume that whoever is doing the complaining is wrong - they <a href="http://www.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/english/advice">may have a point</a>, and if you think about it, that point may help you grow and succeed.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">So, yes, if something is bringing you down, change it. If you can't change it - and sometimes you definitely cannot - then by all means complain. You never know, the situation might change after that. It could even get better than ever.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">If you want some help writing a complaint letter, <a href="http://themoonlitdoor.blogspot.co.uk/p/contact-me.html">just ask</a>. As a <a href="http://themoonlitdoor.blogspot.co.uk/p/writing-proofreading-editing-services.html">freelance writer</a> I've often complained on other people's behalf! </span>Lisamarie Lambhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13044677750551861221noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2928266058320305901.post-86788654364738948132016-01-10T09:45:00.000+00:002016-01-10T09:45:26.663+00:00What's The Link Between Ian Fleming & Sting?It sounds like a truly unanswerable riddle, but there is actually a solution - and it is a rather surprising one.<br />
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<a href="http://www.ianfleming.com/" target="_blank">Ian Fleming</a> wrote his James Bond novels in Jamaica, sitting at a certain desk. Decades later, that same desk was used by <a href="http://www.sting.com/" target="_blank">Sting</a> to pen his famous song, <i>Every Breath You Take</i>.<br />
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Finding this out made me wonder whether creative talent can be passed on. Not necessarily through inanimate objects (although why not? Why shouldn't a desk or pen or chair or anything else become infused with <a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/creativity" target="_blank">creativity</a>? We don't know what causes it in the first place, so we can't dismiss anything when it comes to skill and talent), but perhaps through being in proximity to someone.<br />
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According to some scientists, everyone has some kind of talent, even if it's hidden in most people (that's what it's only a handful in the grand scheme of things who can sing, compose, write, paint, draw, and so on).<br />
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But what if, simply by spending time with people whose talent is most definitely out there, we can soak up some of that creativity and be better at the things we want to do?<br />
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It's an experiment I'm willing to trial... Now, where would I find <a href="http://www.jkrowling.com/" target="_blank">J. K. Rowling</a>?<br />
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<br />Lisamarie Lambhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13044677750551861221noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2928266058320305901.post-42947394835611462016-01-01T16:36:00.000+00:002016-01-01T16:36:38.393+00:00Happy New Year - 2016? Really?<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Yes, here we are. It's 2016 and, whether we're ready or not, it's happening. <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_Year%27s_resolution" target="_blank">Resolutions</a> are popular, and easily broken. I've already <a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-3371164/Don-t-critical-track-progress-New-Year-s-resolution-buddy-Psychologists-reveal-6-tips-help-STICK-2016-goals.html" target="_blank">broken my one and only</a>, which was to write 500 words of fiction* each and every day.<br />
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Why haven't I written my 500 words today?<br />
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Because I was enjoying some <a href="http://www.parents.com/parenting/better-parenting/advice/maximize-family-time/" target="_blank">family time</a>. It happens pretty rarely, these days when we're altogether, so yes, I could have hidden myself away upstairs and churned out 500 words, but what would I be missing downstairs? What fun could I be having?<br />
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And that's the point.<br />
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Writing is fun, it's wonderful, I love it, but it will always be there. My family won't. One day my little girl will be grown up and living somewhere else with her own things to do and her own life to live, and I'll have more than enough time to do my writing.<br />
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So for 2016, I guess me real resolution is to enjoy life, take opportunities when they come up, and cherish my family. And if I get days when I write 500 words of fiction, that's a bonus.<br />
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Let's make it a good one!<br />
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Oh, and those resolutions that everyone loves so much are listed on <a href="http://www.supplymanagement.com/">www.supplymanagement.com</a>. They are:<br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #4c4c4c; font-family: Gotham, proxima-nova, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17.1px; line-height: 1.538em;">1. Get fitter and healthier (63 per cent)</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4c4c4c; font-family: Gotham, proxima-nova, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17.1px; line-height: 24.795px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4c4c4c; font-family: Gotham, proxima-nova, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17.1px; line-height: 1.538em;">2. Drink less alcohol (57 per cent)</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4c4c4c; font-family: Gotham, proxima-nova, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17.1px; line-height: 24.795px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4c4c4c; font-family: Gotham, proxima-nova, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17.1px; line-height: 1.538em;">3. Lose weight (34 per cent)</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4c4c4c; font-family: Gotham, proxima-nova, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17.1px; line-height: 24.795px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4c4c4c; font-family: Gotham, proxima-nova, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17.1px; line-height: 1.538em;">4. Get out of debt (26 per cent)</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4c4c4c; font-family: Gotham, proxima-nova, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17.1px; line-height: 24.795px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4c4c4c; font-family: Gotham, proxima-nova, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17.1px; line-height: 1.538em;">5. Stop smoking (22 per cent)</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4c4c4c; font-family: Gotham, proxima-nova, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17.1px; line-height: 24.795px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4c4c4c; font-family: Gotham, proxima-nova, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17.1px; line-height: 1.538em;">6. Find a new job/change career (18 per cent)</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4c4c4c; font-family: Gotham, proxima-nova, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17.1px; line-height: 24.795px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4c4c4c; font-family: Gotham, proxima-nova, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17.1px; line-height: 1.538em;">7. Spend more time with friends/family (14 per cent)</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4c4c4c; font-family: Gotham, proxima-nova, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17.1px; line-height: 24.795px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4c4c4c; font-family: Gotham, proxima-nova, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17.1px; line-height: 1.538em;">8. Start my own business (11 per cent)</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4c4c4c; font-family: Gotham, proxima-nova, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17.1px; line-height: 24.795px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4c4c4c; font-family: Gotham, proxima-nova, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17.1px; line-height: 1.538em;">9. Travel more (9 per cent)</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4c4c4c; font-family: Gotham, proxima-nova, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17.1px; line-height: 24.795px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4c4c4c; font-family: Gotham, proxima-nova, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17.1px; line-height: 1.538em;">10. Find love (7 per cent)</span><br />
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*I write for a living, so regularly write upwards of 5,000 words a day for other people. My resolution was to write my own fiction, which lapsed a little in 2015.Lisamarie Lambhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13044677750551861221noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2928266058320305901.post-38429195251159586102015-12-06T08:37:00.000+00:002015-12-06T08:37:13.490+00:00Hitting The Wall<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">It happens to us all. That sinking, shrieking, sudden
moment of realisation that we simply cannot go on. No matter what. No way. No
how. It doesn’t matter what the goal is, what the reward is, why we have to do
it, we just hit that figurative wall and that’s it. Done. Finished. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">We slink away, defeated, feeling terrible, wishing we had
the energy or the will to carry on, but knowing that if we even attempted it,
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or J.K Rowling (insert role model of your choice here) has done it. And the
thing of it is, it’s nothing to be ashamed of. It’s natural and normal and it’s
the ones who just keep going that we really ought to worry about… After all,
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to embrace it. Or at least take the opportunity to step back and reassess.
Perhaps there’s another way around that you hadn’t considered before. Instead
of barrelling straight ahead, why not change direction, go sideways, under,
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and bold, basically laughing at you and your efforts to get through them and
find whatever it was you wanted on the other side. Despite their nastiness of
them, we do all know what it is we’re supposed to do with bullies, don’t we?
Yes. Ignore them. Ignore them and they’ll go away. And it’s exactly the same
with walls. Ignore the wall that you’ve suddenly come up against, and turn
around. Leave it. Come back after a rest and a think, a</span><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">nd you might find that
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Lisamarie Lambhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13044677750551861221noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2928266058320305901.post-44428995130588129132015-11-21T10:21:00.000+00:002015-11-21T10:21:27.028+00:00Mind The Gap<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
Mind The Gap is a story from my collection <a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Some-Bodys-At-The-Door/dp/1447875710" target="_blank">Some Body's At The Door</a></div>
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“I hate the Underground, it’s smelly and dirty. And creepy; you know those things live down there,” complained Andy, shivering. “I’d rather walk.” He folded his skinny arms across his narrow chest and stopped dead exactly where he was, eliciting tuts and annoyed grunts from the people behind him.<br />
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Leigh looked at her brother disapprovingly. She paused. She sniffed. “You’re welcome to,” she said, slipping her ticket into the barrier, “But I’m getting the Tube.” Playing mother to an unwilling child, she began to walk towards the downward escalators when she heard little feet running towards her. “Leigh!” shouted the younger boy, moving as fast as he could, his eyes wide and scared. “Mummy said you’re not to leave me on my own!” There was panic and a hint of hysteria in his voice; “Please, don’t leave me on my own down here.”<br />
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Turning, feigning reluctance, Leigh held her hand out to her little brother, her thirteen years to his eight opening up like an impossible gap between them. “Hurry up, then!” she scolded as he reached her. “I would like to get there sometime this year!” She pushed the boy, guiding him in front of her, and kept a hand on his shoulder, comforting contact, making sure that she knew exactly where he was. Andy reached up and held her slender-fingered hand in his small one. He squeezed tight as the moving stairs took them down deeper into the grimy half-light of the Underground station.<br />
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As they descended, Leigh gazed at the top of her brother’s blond head. Recently she had noticed their age difference more and more, and it seemed especially large at that moment. She looked at her brother and saw a boy, a child. It wasn’t that long ago that she had been a child too, and they would play together and laugh at the same things, but now, now she was a teenager. And things had changed. The gap was growing, she could feel it widening and she didn’t know whether she liked it or not. Leigh shivered. Andy looked up at her, twisting his neck. “Are you all right?” he asked, and Leigh wondered whether he could feel the change as well.<br />
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“Fine, fine,” she told him, lying. She felt like an adult when she did it. She supposed that Andy’s childish fear had spooked her far more than she had realised, but she couldn’t let it show or Andy would get even more jumpy than he already was. Instead she said, “Stop worrying, would you? Look out, we’re at the bottom.” She pushed Andy off the escalator. He leapt, avoiding the crack where the metal stairs met the dirty floor. Leigh deliberately trod on it, watching Andy’s face with interest. His mouth opened slightly, his eyes even wider than before. “You shouldn’t have done that, Leigh,” he said in a whisper.<br />
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“Why’s that?” asked Leigh, sidestepping to let other passengers past her. “What’s wrong with doing that? It’s not got anything to do with that silly old rhyme about breaking my mother’s back, has it? You know that’s all rubbish, don’t you?” Again, the differences. It wasn’t so long ago that she would have avoided the crack herself.<br />
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“Of course it’s rubbish!” shouted Andy, causing passers-by to stop and stare at him. He began to sob, surprising Leigh who was at a loss as to what to do. She hadn’t meant to push him so hard. Andy continued to shout at her through breathless hiccoughs. “I know that’s not true, but you still mustn’t stand on the cracks. They’ll see you. You mustn’t let them know you’re here, so you have to stand just on the steps otherwise they’ll look up and see you. And then they’ll come and get you! And the ones that are already up here – you mustn’t look at them!”<br />
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Her mother’s voice crept stealthily into Leigh’s head, the last worried warning words as they left the house that morning repeating; “Don’t forget, Andy’s only eight. Look after him. Make sure you don’t let him wander off. I love you.”<br />
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Sighing, Leigh bent down to Andy’s height. “Andy, there’s nothing to be scared of,” she said, trying to soothe him. “Millions of people come down here every day and they go about their business and never get hurt. So just calm down. I promise there’s nothing lurking under the stairs. Come on, Aunty Kelly is expecting us for lunch, we don’t want to keep her waiting.”<br />
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Andy sniffed and nodded. “Okay.” He attempted to smile but ended up with an expression on his face that was somewhere between abject terror and sympathy for Leigh and her obvious inability to understand. He was worried. Surely she knew… She used to know. And now she must have forgotten. She had forgotten a lot since her birthday. A lot of things that were important to know. Essential, in fact, to know. Kids knew. Adults didn’t. Leigh, though… He worried still. Leigh was neither here nor there, neither child nor adult, and she was on dangerous ground. Still vulnerable, but unable to believe she was. He would have to look after her today. And for all days until she was safe and he, too, forgot what there was to know.<br />
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Andy reached out his hand to his sister. Leigh took hold and gently led him towards the strip lighted tunnel that would connect them to the trains, thinking she was in charge. Thinking she was doing what her mother had asked of her. It wasn’t hard, was it, to keep a little boy safe?<br />
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Sad music, a drifting, dreamy version of ‘My Favourite Things’, floated towards the pair as they walked, echoing along with their footsteps and voices through the tunnel. Despite the tune sounding more like a lament than a jolly show stopper, Leigh dug into her pocket for some spare change. She offered it to Andy. “Want to give this to the violin man?” she asked, nodding in the direction of an unkempt man in a long overcoat who stood a little way ahead, creaking out the miserable melody on a decrepit and battered violin. Andy shook his head quickly, decisively. “No, thank you,” he said. He did not go into details – he understood now that Leigh wouldn’t believe anything he said about the buskers. He understood now that it was best just to ignore them and hope that they would go away, just like he did with the monster in his wardrobe and the ghost under his bed. <span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span><br />
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“You sure?” asked Leigh, surprised. She hadn’t expected him to turn her down; Andy normally enjoyed giving his money to the various street performers around London, especially when there was the reward at the end of it, a sticker, a badge, one of those little furry bookmark things. He had a collection of them.<br />
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But this time Andy nodded, then shook his head, his lips tight shut. Leigh was caught. She personally disliked giving money away. She would rather spend it on herself, after all it was hers, not earned, perhaps, but given to her by people who had earned it and who expected her to spend it wisely. But since the money was in her hand, she threw it into the violin case by the man’s feet, avoiding awkwardness. He looked up and smiled, apparently happy with the meagre offering – literally pennies. Leigh smiled back, meeting his watery eyes, surprising in their age, being polite and not a little embarrassed over the whole situation. Andy began tugging urgently at her arm, shielding his face with his bag. “Come on!” he said loudly, “We’ll be late!”<br />
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“I’m so sorry,” said Leigh to the musician and indicating Andy with her eyes, laughing, hoping the busker shared her problem, understood her meaning. She didn’t want to cause a scene. Another one.<br />
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The music stopped. “Not a problem,” said the violin player. His voice was husky with disuse and the words sounded foreign falling from his tongue. Rather than waiting for Leigh’s response, he brought the ancient instrument back up to his chin and began to play again, the haunting music floating away down the cavernous walkways, filling the air, filling every space with the lingering refrain. Leigh didn’t like it. It seemed to hover around her, enveloping her, a cartoon cloud above her head, making her feel dulled. Muted. Deadened.<br />
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Andy pulled Leigh along, her own stiff and heavy legs not wanting to move much of their own volition, only stopping again when the busker was out of sight. The music still drifted, but finally Leigh seemed to be knocked out of her fugue. Knocked out of that and straight into railing on her little brother; “Why were you so rude, Andy? What the hell’s got into you?” Her head pounded to the rhythm of the now silent music, and even her eyelids ached.<br />
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Andy knew there was a problem. He had the strangest feeling that this was a turning point. It was over, his previous life, his youth, perhaps, because he now understood more than he wanted to. More than his sister did. Which was unfortunate, and very unfair. He took a deep breath, stared straight into Leigh’s reddened, maddened eyes and simply went for it, screaming out his knowledge, making no sense as he did so; “You mustn’t look at him, Leigh, you mustn’t! He mustn’t see you!”<br />
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“I am fed up with you telling me what I mustn’t do today, Andrew.”<br />
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Andy, chagrined and crushed in a way only a younger brother could be by Leigh’s use of his full name would, in normal circumstances, have said nothing. But this time it was too important for lies and too important for the truth, so Andy had to say something in between; “I’m sorry, I can’t explain, Leigh, but it’s bad. It just is. Why can’t you remember? I wish you could just-”<br />
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Leigh snapped; “Enough!” The sound of her voice was so loud, much, much louder than her brother’s had been, that it bounced off of the bright tiled walls and boxed Andy’s ears as hard as a fist would have done. He gasped. Hiccoughed. His throat was scratchy and dry and yet he still tried to explain. “The man, the music man, you shouldn’t have looked, Leigh, you shouldn’t have listened, it’s bad, it’s a trick, Leigh, a trick!”<br />
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And then the real blow came. The stinging of his cheek was the only thing that made it real, otherwise he would have thought he was dreaming. A nightmare. Leigh had hit him. His large eyes brimmed with the tears of pain, of fear, of complete frustration and utter despair. They did not fall. Leigh saw to that. She used her sleeve to wipe them before they had a chance as dozens, hundreds, of commuters and tourists passed them, choosing to ignore the incident happening in front of them. Some probably even thought it was entertainment, put on for their pleasure.<br />
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No one understood. Because no one else had looked a busker in the eye.<br />
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No one understood except Andy, of course.<br />
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And being eight and inconsequential in the eyes of the world he could make no one understand.<br />
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The slap, as unexpected and ridiculously unnecessary as it was, slowed Andy’s thoughts and for that he was grateful. No longer on autopilot, he could breathe freely, if jagged with fright, and he knew what had happened. What was happening. And no amount of persuasion would make Leigh think again. So Andy apologised, and both he and Leigh knew he didn’t mean it. But she accepted it anyway.<br />
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“Come on, then,” she said, rubbing his red cheek and slipping her arm around his still shaking shoulders. Feeling him made her catch her breath, made her suddenly sad because he was only eight but soon he would be a teenager, an adult, an old man. Life was fleeting. And the soulful soulless musician’s music came back to her, if it had ever left. There was a melancholy stillness to the air, sound in a vacuum and she knew what she would do.<br />
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She wouldn’t do it.<br />
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She couldn’t do it.<br />
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But she had to.<br />
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Andy felt it. He felt a tightening of Leigh’s fingers on his arm and a tightening of the world around him. He didn’t like it. He couldn’t stop it.<br />
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As they emerged onto the platform the first waft of warm air hit Andy full in the face and stole his breath. That gust carried the music, and it was as though he could read Leigh’s mind. Terror ripped through the boy and he tried to run but Leigh had him gripped tightly. So tightly that he had no choice but to follow her lead. And she timed her jump well, just as train hurtled by.<br />
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And finally, the music in her head stopped playing.<br />
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Lisamarie Lambhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13044677750551861221noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2928266058320305901.post-76928893647195270392015-09-26T10:18:00.000+01:002015-09-26T10:18:15.320+01:00The Sinister Left<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Recently there was a <a href="http://abcnews.go.com/US/okla-teacher-accused-stopping-boy-writing-left-hand/story?id=33969339" target="_blank">news story</a> about an Oklahoma teacher who 'forced' a 4 year old boy to write with his right hand rather than his left. Investigations are ongoing, but it seems as though the teacher was concerned about associations with left handedness and unlucky or wicked behaviour.<br />
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Whilst this may sound strange today, it wasn't so very long ago that making left handers write with their non-dominant hands was usual practice in schools. But why was (and, as it now appears, is) being left handed such a problem?<br />
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Throughout history, the left side of the body was considered to be a negative influence. In fact, the Latin word 'sinistra' meant both 'left' and 'evil' or 'unlucky', so the idea was well ingrained in society. Today, 'sinistra' has become 'sinister', so the wicked connotations remain. This, along with the idea that the word 'right' also means 'correct' and 'proper', reinforces the belief that anything on the left side had to be influenced by evil in some way.<br />
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Superstition has us throwing salt over our left shoulder when we spill it. Why? To blind the devil that sits there. A devil on the left shoulder is counterbalanced by an angel on the right, so turning to the left, using the left side of the body, working with the left in anyway is seen as working or using the devil. Bad stuff indeed. Whereas using the right side of the body is seen as working with the angels, which, of course, is seen as a much better option.<br />
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There are always studies going on to discover why some people are left handed and others (the majority of society) are right handed, but as yet there is no conclusive evidence for anything. Maybe one day we will understand, or maybe - as I believe is most likely the case - there is no reason. It just is.<br />
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I'm a left hander, and so is my daughter. So far so good for both of us - we've not yet met the devil. But I suppose I'll keep throwing the salt just to make sure...<br />
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<br />Lisamarie Lambhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13044677750551861221noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2928266058320305901.post-64973830688438022272015-08-30T18:33:00.000+01:002015-08-30T18:34:13.528+01:00Kids' Week - Getting Children Into Theatres<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<a href="http://www.kidsweek.co.uk/" target="_blank">Kids' Week</a> is a fantastic concept that comes around every August. Any child aged 16 or under can see participating London theatre shows when accompanied by a full paying adult - it gets children into the theatre, hopefully fostering a love of plays, ballets, and musicals (all creative arts really), and is a great treat for the end of the summer holidays.<br />
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We've taken advantage of Kids' Week twice now. In 2014, my daughter Alice (3 at the time) and I went to see <a href="http://www.thetigerwhocametotealive.com/index.htm#.VeM9X_lViko" target="_blank">The Tiger Who Came To Tea</a>, which we both loved, and which Alice still talks about to this day. This year we went to The Garrick Theatre just off Leicester Square to see <a href="http://www.letitbelive.com/the-show/" target="_blank">Let It Be</a>.<br />
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What a hit!<br />
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Let It Be is the story of <a href="http://www.thebeatles.com/" target="_blank">The Beatles</a> told purely through their songs, played by excellent sound-alike musicians in all the right costumes, in chronological order. The audience is actively encouraged to stand up, dance, sing along, take photos, and even video the performances. It is a totally immersive theatre experience that everyone, whether they know the songs of The Beatles or not, can get into.<br />
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Alice (now 4) has been aware of The Beatles and their music all her life. Our household doesn't really 'do' modern music, stopping somewhere in the early 00s, apart from the odd song here and there. 80s and 90s are my preferred decades, whereas my husband adores the music of the 50s and 60s, and especially The Beatles. Before <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-G6IxcmgblA" target="_blank">yesterday</a> (no pun intended), however, Alice hadn't been a mega fan, as such. She just enjoyed some of the songs. Now, though, she is obsessed. She has been listening to the music all day. She has been trying - with a little success - to pick out the tunes on the piano. She wants to see the show again.<br />
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Her favourite songs are <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C5E_zXbmrlM" target="_blank">Here Comes The Sun</a> and "All The Lonely People" (otherwise known as <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k9Itt02QOO0" target="_blank">Eleanor Rigby</a>).<br />
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And that's what Kids' Week is all about. It shows children that there is a different form of entertainment out there than can lead them to open up their own creative outlets. And who knows where that will take them?<br />
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<br style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" />Lisamarie Lambhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13044677750551861221noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2928266058320305901.post-3333667603585514592015-08-16T18:18:00.000+01:002015-08-16T18:21:14.173+01:00Review: Life, Death & Vanilla Slices by Jenny Eclair<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<i>Mothers should never have favourites... </i><br />
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I borrowed <i>Life, Death and Vanilla Slices</i> from my local library on a whim. I'd heard Jenny Eclair speaking on BBC Radio 2 about her new book, <i>Moving</i>, and I'd thought it sounded pretty good. The paperback isn't out until December, however, and the hardback has a queue of 28 people wanting to borrow it from the library, so I went for something else by the same author.<br />
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I'd only known Jenny Eclair from TV and radio, equating her voice and face with comedy and satire, and I had had no idea she was an author, so I didn't know what to expect when I began to read <i>Life, Death and Vanilla Slices. </i>From the first few lines, however, I was hooked.<br />
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This is, to use a clichéd term, a page turner. I was desperate to know what happened next in the life - such as it was - of Jean Collins, and her daughters Anne and (the favourite) Jess. Each new chapter brought smiles, laughs, and no small amount of tears - the descriptions of a mother watching her children grow until they no longer need her went deep.<br />
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The book is funny. Definitely funny. But it is heart wrenchingly, gasp-inducingly sad too. That's because it feels utterly real. This could have happened to your grandmother. Your next door neighbour. The woman sitting next to you on the bus. And, because some secrets are meant to be kept, even when they weigh you down for life, no one will ever know.<br />
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The premise of the book is fairly straightforward: an elderly woman is knocked down by a car and ends up in a coma. Her eldest daughter feels she should travel from London to Blackpool to be with her. Both of them reminisce (Jean in her coma, Anne in her life) about what has brought them to this point. The memories start off pleasantly enough, but in every family there are problems and secrets, and we soon find that Jean's second daughter, Jess, is missing (and has been for almost 30 years). But that's not the half of it. There is so much more, yet none of it feels melodramatic or like something from a TV soap; the most clever and wonderful part of this book is that it all seems absolutely real.<br />
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I didn't know how the ending would hit me - I had hoped for happy, at least happy for now if not happily ever after, but as the pages began to grow fewer, I had to begin believing that not everything would be resolved. At least not in a fairytale kind of way. I don't want to give anything away, but I was in bits, sobbing to myself on the sofa when I finally closed this book. Partly because the ending was sad, in a bitter-sweet and terrible way, but also because it could have been different. If the characters had done one thing, just one thing different in their lives, everything would have changed. For the better? Perhaps. For the worse? Who knows? But the point is, there were missed opportunities to speak, to act, to live. And that is the saddest thing of all.<br />
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5 stars<br />
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<br />Lisamarie Lambhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13044677750551861221noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2928266058320305901.post-16671258563392471422015-08-09T20:06:00.000+01:002015-08-09T20:06:52.652+01:00Crocodiles in Cream<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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On 7<sup>th</sup> August, I was lucky enough to be invited
to watch the play <i><a href="http://www.crocodilesincream.com/" target="_blank">Crocodiles in Cream</a></i>
at the Barn Theatre in <a href="http://www.nationaltrust.org.uk/smallhythe-place/" target="_blank">Smallhythe Place</a>. Smallhythe was the country home of the
famous Victorian actress <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ellen_Terry" target="_blank">Ellen Terry</a>, and The Barn was her own private theatre.
These days, the <a href="http://www.nationaltrust.org.uk/" target="_blank">National Trust</a> has opened the theatre to the public, and there
are often wonderful shows put on there. <o:p></o:p></div>
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<i>Crocodiles in Cream</i>
is one such show. <o:p></o:p></div>
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This one man play details the life of <a href="http://lewiscarrollsociety.org.uk/" target="_blank">Lewis Carroll</a> during
his time as a don at <a href="http://www.chch.ox.ac.uk/" target="_blank">Christ Church College</a>, Oxford, where he lived alone for 40
years. Superbly acted by the wonderful <a href="http://www.crocodilesincream.com/adres-review1.html" target="_blank">Kevin Moore</a>, this was a different
portrayal to the many other biographies of Carroll – the Rev Charles Dodgson –
that have come before. The shy, witty, eccentric, funny, brilliant, yet tormented
man that Lewis Carroll was is given a chance to tell his own story, to give his
own side of himself, through his writing, letters, and poetry. <o:p></o:p></div>
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In <i>Crocodiles in Cream</i>
we learn of Carroll’s love of photography, specifically taking pictures of the
little girls he so loved. The play makes slightly uncomfortable viewing with
twenty first century eyes and minds, and the audience must question whether
they wish to take Carroll’s naivety – as he himself views it – as truth or not.
Even Carroll himself admits that his contemporaries find it strange that he
takes children to his room and on short holidays to Eastbourne, but he protests
his innocence, explaining that they are simply friends. Yes in another of his
letters to one girl’s mother, he asks whether the girl is ‘kissable’. And why,
if there was nothing untoward in his relationship with the many children he
heartily proclaimed to love, did so many parents soon prevent the man from
making contact with them. This included little <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alice_Liddell" target="_blank">Alice Liddell</a>’s mother. We learn
that Alice herself, as an adult and with children of her own, ignored Carroll’s
pleas for her to visit when she was in Oxford. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Through these letters, poems, and more, we begin to understand
exactly how distraught Carroll was when Alice was no longer there to be his
muse. When she grew up, when she left him – or was made to leave him. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Moore gave Carroll a pathos that, notwithstanding the
strangeness of the man’s relationship with the children, was heart breaking to
watch. <o:p></o:p></div>
Lisamarie Lambhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13044677750551861221noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2928266058320305901.post-30478621615181390242015-07-25T14:16:00.000+01:002015-07-25T14:16:23.818+01:00The Listeners - What Does It Mean?<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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The photo above may be tricky to read properly, but it's worth trying. It's the first few lines of my favourite poem, "The Listeners" by Walter de la Mare, and I spotted it on the side of a building in Guildford whilst sitting in traffic. Rain and vehicles made grabbing a snapshot difficult, and I did what I could, surprised and elated to find that the words I had always found so evocative should show up in that place at that time.<br />
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"The Listeners" is a strange poem. It could mean many things, it might mean nothing, and perhaps de la Mare was simply telling a story with no subtext whatsoever. For me, there are layers to "The Listeners". The first is that it's a story - a strange and ghostly one - about a man (The Traveller) who is looking for someone or something, and thinks he has found it behind a "moonlit door" in the forest (see where my blog's name comes from?). But there is no one (or nothing) there. His knock is not answered. He leaves, alone.<br />
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The second part of the story is the part that intrigues me, though. Who is the Traveller? Why is he there? Does he even know, or is this a dream? Who (or what) is he looking for, and what will he do now that he has journeyed to the place he was told (or was he?) to go to, only to find he is too late? Too late for what? Is this the end of the world? Has he been forgotten during The Rapture?<br />
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Each question opens up more, and none of them have answers.<br />
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That's what I love this poem.<br />
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<span style="background-color: #990000;"><span class="author" style="display: inline-block; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.05em; text-transform: uppercase;">BY <a href="http://www.poetryfoundation.org/bio/walter-de-la-mare" style="outline: none; text-decoration: none;">WALTER DE LA MARE</a></span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 12px;"></span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 12px;"></span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: #990000;">‘Is there anybody there?’ said the Traveller, </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #990000;"> Knocking on the moonlit door;</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #990000;">And his horse in the silence champed the grasses </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #990000;"> Of the forest’s ferny floor:</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #990000;">And a bird flew up out of the turret, </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #990000;"> Above the Traveller’s head:</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #990000;">And he smote upon the door again a second time; </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #990000;"> ‘Is there anybody there?’ he said.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #990000;">But no one descended to the Traveller; </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #990000;"> No head from the leaf-fringed sill</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #990000;">Leaned over and looked into his grey eyes, </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #990000;"> Where he stood perplexed and still.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #990000;">But only a host of phantom listeners </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #990000;"> That dwelt in the lone house then</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #990000;">Stood listening in the quiet of the moonlight </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #990000;"> To that voice from the world of men:</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #990000;">Stood thronging the faint moonbeams on the dark stair, </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #990000;"> That goes down to the empty hall,</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #990000;">Hearkening in an air stirred and shaken </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #990000;"> By the lonely Traveller’s call.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #990000;">And he felt in his heart their strangeness, </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #990000;"> Their stillness answering his cry,</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #990000;">While his horse moved, cropping the dark turf, </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #990000;">Never the least stir made the listeners, </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #990000;"> Though every word he spake</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #990000;"> From the one man left awake:</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #990000;">Ay, they heard his foot upon the stirrup, </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #990000;"> And the sound of iron on stone,</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #990000;">And how the silence surged softly backward, </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #990000;"> When the plunging hoofs were gone.</span></div>
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Lisamarie Lambhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13044677750551861221noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2928266058320305901.post-85373726247946371192015-05-26T17:10:00.002+01:002015-05-26T17:11:34.878+01:00100 Words - Strangers<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Writing exercises are a great way to get back into the flow of creating if you have had to take some time away from fiction for a while. One exercise that is fun but which also gets the creative ideas flowing once again is drabble writing. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Drabbles are pieces of writing that are exactly 100 words long, and should take no more than 10 to 15 minutes to write. I find that if I am stuck with a plot point, or need to ease myself back into writing, attempting a drabble helps my concentration and creativity. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">An example of a drabble I've written is this one, called Strangers. </span></div>
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entered the bank together, almost at the same time, so close, you holding the
door open for me, me smiling at you but not really looking, passing you as I
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<br />Lisamarie Lambhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13044677750551861221noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2928266058320305901.post-73764115191061374812015-05-16T19:42:00.001+01:002015-05-16T19:42:41.108+01:00Godstow Nunnery<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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We recently took a trip. A long weekend away. Thanks to my work on insideKENT and insideSUSSEX Magazines, I had been offered the chance to travel to Oxford and enjoy four days and three nights on a narrowboat. We'd never done anything like this before, and although my cautious nature threw up myriad reasons with this would be a bad idea (especially with a 4 year old, especially as we had no boating experience), in the end I said yes.<br />
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Why not?<br />
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Saying yes to scary things had been an unofficial new year's resolution of mine, but until now I hadn't had much of a chance to do anything about it, yes here was the ultimate test. If I could say yes to a long weekend on a narrowboat, I could be proud of myself. Not only that, but it would be nice to get away from it all for a few days. It would make a change. And we might never get the chance to do it again.<br />
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So off we went.<br />
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The trip itself was by turns terrifying and hilarious, argument forming and bonding, and you can read all about it in June's issue of the magazines.<br />
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But there was one moment that stood out for me.<br />
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On the way from Eynsham (where we had picked up the boat from the lovely and accommodating Anglowelsh boat hire company) to Oxford (our ultimate goal), we had passed a ruin of a building that, because we had our mission in mind, we hadn't stopped at to explore. I felt this was a shame, and managed to snap a few blurred pictures as we sailed (if that is the right word when it comes to a narrowboat) past. It was interesting, and I thought I would be able to use it in a short story or novel at some point in the future.<br />
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I forgot about it after that - we had locks to contend with, and mooring to deal with, and Oxford to be tourists in, so it was the furthest thing from my mind. But of course, when our time in Oxford was up and the weekend was drawing to a close, we had to return to Eynsham. So we passed the place again. This time, we passed it as we were looking for a place to stop for the night - the last night - of our trip. It was only as we were passing the ruins that I spotted a likely looking place for mooring, but by the time I had articulated as such, as had passed it.<br />
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It's a good thing that Dean is actually quite proficient at steering a narrowboat. He had liked the look of the flattish piece of bank and the open area beyond it, as well as the pub that could just be seen on the other side of the river, so he turned the boat around. This didn't cause too many problems. Mooring up, on the other hand, did. I jumped off the boat, but took so long hammering the mooring pegs into the soft ground that the back end started drifting out again. Panic ensued, but as luck would have it a couple who had moored up (with much more luck than us) just a little further upriver came to our rescue, directing Dean and helping me to tie some pretty sturdy knots.<br />
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That boat was going nowhere without our say-so.<br />
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In fiction our rescue and the tale of what the building actually is or was would be looked at as a coincidence too far, suspension of disbelief stretched to the limit, but this was real life, and so anything was possible.<br />
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Once settled, we - Dean, Alice, and I - went to check out the building we were moored directly next to.<br />
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It was called Godstow Nunnery.<br />
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It was supposed to be haunted (so of course we tempted fate by going inside and making a bit of a racket), but we saw and heard nothing that night, nor the next morning. It's still going to be the basis of a short story though - watch this space.<br />
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What we did discover, though, was that the Reverend Charles Dodgson (Lewis Carroll, of course), had come here. And not just him either; he had brought Alice Liddell (THE Alice) and her sisters here for picnics, after rowing down the Thames from Oxford.<br />
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What a beautiful coincidence.<br />
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Not long before discovering this information my own Alice had been running around the ruins of Godstow Nunnery, inside and out, playing and laughing, much as I imagined Alice Liddell to have done.<br />
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No ghosts were seen that night, but my dreams were full of stories. I hope to write them soon. I wonder what stories Lewis Carroll thought of here?<br />
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<br />Lisamarie Lambhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13044677750551861221noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2928266058320305901.post-10352397512308346872015-03-22T08:01:00.001+00:002015-03-22T08:01:13.018+00:00Book Review: Ladies' Night at Finbar's Hotel<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Ladies-Night-at-Finbars-Hotel/dp/1904301126/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1427011056&sr=8-1&keywords=Ladies%27+Night+at+Finbar%27s+Hotel" target="_blank">Ladies' Night at Finbar's Hotel</a> is a short story collection by seven female Irish writers that ties together to create a novel about a once time down at heel hotel that has recently been revamped and reopened and now caters to the rich and famous. </div>
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The stories are by <a href="http://www.maevebinchy.com/" target="_blank">Maeve Binchy</a>, <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clare_Boylan" target="_blank">Clare Boylan</a>, <a href="http://emmadonoghue.com/" target="_blank">Emma Donoghue</a>, <a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Anne-Haverty/e/B001HPLYUM" target="_blank">Anne Haverty</a>, <a href="http://www.eilisnidhuibhne.com/" target="_blank">Eilis Ni Dhuibhne</a>, <a href="http://www.lovereading.co.uk/author/626/Kate-O-Riordan.html" target="_blank">Kate O'Riordan</a>, and <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Deirdre_Purcell" target="_blank">Deirdre Purcell</a>, but in an interesting twist, the reader is not told who wrote which story. Each one has a slightly different style and tone, and for those who are fans of any of the above named writers it may well be an easy bit of detection to work out which story they wrote, but for the reader who has no knowledge of the women involved in editor <a href="http://www.dermotbolger.com/" target="_blank">Dermot Bolger</a>'s exciting and moving book, it is a fascinating way to be introduced to a group of new (to the reader) writers. </div>
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Each story is focused on one woman and her night at Finbar's. All seven women in the book are staying at the hotel on the same night, and throughout the stories there are glimpses of the other characters that you will meet later on, or you have already met. For those who are yet to be found (the woman typing in the lobby, for example, whose story comes near the end of the book but who is mentioned in a number of earlier stories), the reader waits in anticipation to discover who she is and what her reasons for being at Finbar's really are. For those whom the reader knows all about, there is a certain satisfaction in knowing more than the protagonist whose story is currently being read. It's wonderful how the stories all tie together, and Finbar's deserves a second reading in order to find all the clues. </div>
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There are tales of failed love and love rekindled, of lives lived and lives lost, of families being torn apart and others being brought back together. Finbar's has a history, and despite the new and improved look, despite the makeover and the shininess, that history can't help but show through. </div>
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An enjoyable, thought provoking book that I will certainly read more than once. </div>
Lisamarie Lambhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13044677750551861221noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2928266058320305901.post-81120679968394161152015-02-18T12:11:00.002+00:002015-02-18T12:11:38.465+00:00Trust Your Instincts - Life Is Too Short To Read Boring Books! <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Once upon a time I thought that I should read pretty much
everything. Anything I could get my hands on, no matter what the genre, no
matter what the subject matter. So I did. But I didn’t enjoy it. In fact, after
finishing some of the books, I wondered to myself what I could have done with the
time that I had spent (wasted) reading a book I hadn’t enjoyed. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">What else could I have done? <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">So I stopped reading pretty much everything. I began to read
only those books that intrigued me enough – through their blurb and, yes, their
cover – to make me <i>want</i> to read them. It was that wanting that made the impact,
rather than the needing. If I needed to read a book (for school, <a href="http://www.canterbury.ac.uk/" target="_blank">university</a>,
because others had suggested it and wanted to hear my opinion) it just wasn’t
the same as wanting to because it was a subject or an author that interested
me. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">I realised that <a href="http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/20-things-life-too-short-worry-about.html" target="_blank">life is very short</a> indeed, and that there
are more books out there than I could ever possibly hope to read, which is
wonderful in a way, but deeply depressing in another. And reading books that
just don’t grab me, or rather continuing to read them even after I have
realised that I’m not enjoying the story or the writing or whatever, takes up
too much of my precious time. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">I was reminded of this recently, when I read <a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Cujo-Stephen-King/dp/1444708120/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1424261438&sr=8-2&keywords=cujo" target="_blank">Cujo by StephenKing</a>. Now, I’m a big King fan (I like his short stories best, but <a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Shining-Stephen-King/dp/1444720724/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1424261462&sr=8-2&keywords=the+shining" target="_blank">The Shining</a>
has a special place in my horrified heart), but for some reason I had always
put off reading this particular book. Something about the subject matter –
rabid dog terrorises small town – just didn’t interest me, so I didn’t go near
it. But then, I was browsing in my local library and had a craving for King.
Yes, I have plenty of his books at home, but I wanted something new. The only
King book that the library had that I hadn’t read was Cujo, so I went for it. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">I should have returned it the next day. I should have
realised immediately that my instincts had been right all along, and that this
was not the book for me. I don’t know whether it was a feeling of wanting to be
loyal to Stephen King, or because I wanted to like it, but I read the whole
thing. And I was disappointed. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Lisamarie Lambhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13044677750551861221noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2928266058320305901.post-88060905560491212092015-01-22T17:02:00.001+00:002015-01-22T17:02:40.062+00:00Anthony Nield - The Kentish Artist With Heart and Talent<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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In my job as feature writer for <a href="http://insidekentmagazine.co.uk/" target="_blank">insideKENT Magazine</a> (and for the soon to be launched <a href="http://www.insidesussexmagazine.co.uk/" target="_blank">insideSUSSEX Magazine</a>, coming in March 2015), I get to experience a lot of interesting things. I've enjoyed wonderful meals in fantastic restaurants in order to write a review, I've been able to go out for family day trips to get a real feel for the place I'm writing about, and I've even scored press tickets to sold out shows in London - a true treat for my daughter Alice as well.<br />
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But sometimes I forget how lucky I am to do the job I'm doing. And sometimes it's other people who remind me of that fact. Recently, it was Anthony Nield, a Kent based artist, who showed me exactly how blessed I am. In the <a href="http://www.joomag.com/magazine/insidekent-magazine-issue-33-december-2014/0860184001416823879?short" target="_blank">December 2014</a> issue of insideKENT, I did an interview with Mr Nield, whose work I had discovered online (and you can too: <a href="http://www.anthonynield.com/">http://www.anthonynield.com/</a>). I'd fallen in love with his style - he works in both pen and ink and watercolours - and loved the way he had found of expressing himself. The interview went well, and both Anthony and I were pleased with the outcome.<br />
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Wonderful - it's always good to help another artist (as a <a href="http://themoonlitdoor.blogspot.co.uk/p/buy-my-anthologies.html" target="_blank">writer</a>, I consider myself to be one) and to showcase beautiful work.<br />
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A few weeks later, I was surprised to receive an email from Anthony, thanking me for the article, and offering to draw me something - my choice. I was stunned. I was excited. I was absolutely over the moon about this! With, I'll admit, a shaking hand, I replied to the email attaching a photograph of my favourite place in the entire world which is, ironically, not in Kent (or Sussex) at all, but Hampshire. It is a place called <a href="https://www.facebook.com/LinfordBottom" target="_blank">Linford Bottom</a> in the New Forest. This is where many of my childhood holidays were spent, and this is where, at the tender age of about 6 or so, I wrote my first play. My sister and I acted it out, and we still have it on video. It was called The Juniper Tree, and it was an odd mixture of fantasy and adventure and wearing dresses as cloaks.<br />
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Linford Bottom is the place my mind goes to when asked to think of a happy place, or a favourite memory. It is the place I return to in my dreams fairly regularly. It is the place I love above all others.<br />
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So this was the place I chose to have drawn for me. For me. What a wonderful thing!<br />
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Some weeks later, Mr Nield contacted me and told me my drawing was ready. We arranged to meet up at his house, only about 15 minutes from mine in the end, for the unveiling.<br />
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So, on a cold January evening my daughter and I visited Anthony Nield on our way home from visiting my parents. We interrupted a belated (due to illness) Christmas family gathering there, but we were welcomed so warmly, and with such genuine generosity, that I could have cried with joy, especially when handed the gorgeous drawing Anthony had done for me, not because he had to, or because I had asked him to, but because he truly wanted to.<br />
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Anthony Nield, and his lovely family, have made me so happy. Thank you to them, and especially Anthony for the stunning drawing.</div>
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<br />Lisamarie Lambhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13044677750551861221noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2928266058320305901.post-4974094073485869512015-01-04T10:23:00.005+00:002015-01-04T10:23:56.500+00:00New Year Fireworks<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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year I begin thinking of my New Year’s resolutions as soon as <a href="http://britishfood.about.com/od/christmas/p/boxingday.htm" target="_blank">Boxing Day</a> is
done. Boxing Day is my favourite day of the whole year – Christmas and all its
frantic panic and frivolity is over, and it’s time to kick back and relax,
throw on a DVD, cuddle up in new pyjamas, and relax properly for the first time
since finishing work for the holidays. Everyone tends to be busy doing their
own thing with their new gifts, and it’s a great time to have a good think
about what’s coming next.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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next is, of course, <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_Year%27s_Eve" target="_blank">New Year’s Eve</a>. Just under a week since my favourite day of
the year comes this, my least favourite of all. I’ve always felt somewhat low
on New Year’s Eve, there’s just something in the air that grabs at me and pulls
me down, reminding me of all the things that didn’t get done in the year almost
gone, and the things that should be done in the one coming up. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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is why my first resolution this year is to strike a better <a href="http://www.mentalhealth.org.uk/help-information/mental-health-a-z/w/work-life-balance/" target="_blank">work/life balance</a>.
Easier – far, far easier – said than done; as a freelancer the less I work the
less money I earn. But it needs to be done. My daughter is 4 now, and those
four years have shot past with indecent haste. I imagine the next four, and the
next, and the next will go just as fast, if not faster. And then she will be
gone, and I’ll have all the time in the world to do whatever it is I need to
get done. But in the meantime, I will have missed her growing up because my
back was always turned to her, my eyes more interested in what I was typing
than what she was doing. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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9 months before she starts full time school. I intend to make the most of those
9 months, and the most of her. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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other resolutions are the same as ever – lose weight, exercise more, read more
books (and review them <a href="http://www.themoonlitdoor.blogspot.co.uk/" target="_blank">here</a>), do housework on a more regular basis… Maybe I’ll
stick to those ones, maybe I won’t (I probably won’t). <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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as I can look back in a years’ time and say I did my best in 2015, that we had
good times, that it wasn’t all about chasing the next few pounds, I’ll be
happy. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
Lisamarie Lambhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13044677750551861221noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2928266058320305901.post-48020767168538073992014-10-20T07:53:00.002+01:002014-10-20T07:53:32.280+01:00Echoes of the Past<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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What are the chances of someone you know having the same birthday as you do? My basic maths skills aren't bad, but when it comes to probability and equations, I tend to find safety in words rather than numbers.<br />
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The <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Birthday_problem" target="_blank">birthday paradox</a> is a neat way to work out how many people in a room might have the same birthday as each other. I say neat... what I mean is, to anyone who isn't a mathematician, it's a bit of a complicated maths problem that I find somewhat difficult to process. However, there is a formula, and it does make sense. Honestly. Check it out and you'll see.<br />
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Now, what are the odds of two family members having the same birthday? In <a href="http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/howaboutthat/10578948/Family-have-four-children-with-same-birthday-at-odds-of-more-than-133000-to-one.html" target="_blank">this article</a>, four siblings were born on the same day (although, granted, two of them are twins), at odds of over 133,000 to one.<br />
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That's pretty impressive. And, as most families know, it's not something that usually happens.<br />
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But recently, my family discovered that, despite all the jokes and the ideas about joint parties, it does happen. Because why not?<br />
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My sister and I have very close birthdays; I'm 3rd July, and she's 7th July (with two years separating us). We've always thought that was pretty impressive of our parents (although our parents would probably have preferred a little breathing space between celebrations, thinking about it). But now, the next generation has gone one better.<br />
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My daughter, Alice, was born on 10th October 2010 (yes, a <a href="http://healthland.time.com/2010/10/11/10-babies-to-watch/" target="_blank">10/10/10 baby</a>). It's a nice, round date, and although she was over two weeks late, it all worked out pretty well. When my sister announced she was expecting, and her due date was the same as Alice's had been, we laughed about it. What a coincidence! How strange!<br />
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And then her pregnancy went on. And on. And it suddenly dawned on us all that actually, the coincidence might go even further. What if... Only my sister was taken into hospital on 8th October to be induced, and everything started kicking off pretty quickly. Okay, we thought, those girls are going to have very close birthdays, just like their mummies - how strange!<br />
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Then the labour slowed down. It slowed riiiiight dooooown.<br />
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8th October came and went. 9th October came and went. 10th October came... and right in the middle of Alice's birthday celebration, we heard the news - Tabitha Violet had been born!<br />
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Now, what are the chances of that?<br />
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Happy birthday 10/10 girls!Lisamarie Lambhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13044677750551861221noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2928266058320305901.post-31656626449257733472014-09-27T17:08:00.001+01:002014-09-27T17:11:22.149+01:00New House, New Tree<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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On 27th August 2014, we finally moved house. After being on the market for nine months and missing out on a number of gorgeous houses because we couldn't find a buyer, we came to a momentous (and life changing, as it turns out) decision: we wouldn't sell at all. Instead, we would become both landlord and tenant, by renting out our mortgaged house, and renting a different house in the area we had been trying to get back to for three quarters of a year.<br />
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And it worked out pretty well. Within three days of being on the rental market, we had signed up a new family to live in our home. I hope they have more luck in it than we did. For us, the place represents mistakes and follies that made us miserable and angry. But we can't blame anyone for that; they are our mistakes, our follies, and I just hope that we can make them good now.<br />
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Which is where the new house comes in. Located on a country lane just a few miles from where we used to live (and from where we should not, in hindsight, have moved), we found a little cottage that was up for rent. Far older than it appears, with opens fires, a Rayburn in the dining room, and beams galore, this crooked house immediately had us hooked. Stepping through the front door for the first time felt like home, and just an hour later we made an offer. We were accepted. We were moving.<br />
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Moving house is not a fun experience, no matter how much one might wish to leave the place they are living, no matter how much one might want to live in the place they are going to, and this move was no different. Done over two days with two crews (thanks to the narrow lane and steep drive), discovering that our furniture wouldn't fit up the stairs (again, so very narrow, and curved), and that we had no fridge, we were a ruined mess of a family by the end of it.<br />
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But then we started to live here. And it didn't matter about the mess or the boxes. It hardly mattered about the heating that didn't quite work, and the hot water that did, but took its time to get there. We loved it. We love it. It's like we've always been here.<br />
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To celebrate the move, we planted a tree in the (large - we've never had so much lawn) garden. We'd love to stay here to watch it grow.<br />
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<br />Lisamarie Lambhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13044677750551861221noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2928266058320305901.post-44376526628497636572014-08-16T08:44:00.000+01:002014-08-16T08:44:02.284+01:00Cannibals and Cherries<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<a href="http://www.creative-writing-now.com/what-is-plot.html" target="_blank">Plotting</a> is hard. All the ideas in the world can come at you
quickly and in flashes of inspiration, but when it comes to actually putting them
all in some sort of order, and connecting the pieces of the puzzle to create a
full and complete story, that’s where it can sometimes unravel. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Yesterday I led a workshop at <a href="http://www.swale.gov.uk/sheppey-gateway/" target="_blank">Sheerness Library</a>. It was me,
13 children between the ages of six and 10, and some of their parents too. I
was terrified because, to be honest, I had never taken a class before. Not like
that. I’d spoken in front of people, I’d given presentations, but speaking to a
room full of children and asking them to do some work for me, that was new. And
it’s the summer holidays – would they really want to do the work in the first
place? <o:p></o:p></div>
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I handed out the sheets of paper that I had designed and
felt the first spark of something. Something that made me think the class would
go okay. The children (and the parents) seemed interested. And it was at that moment that I began to lose
my fear and gain my confidence. I explained what the sheet was all about, and
we got started. <o:p></o:p></div>
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The worksheet was a series of four sections that, added
together, would form the basis of a plot. We only had an hour, so the children
could piece their story together at home if they wanted to (and email it to me
if they were really keen), but at least they could get the idea of how to begin
when it came to a short story. Or a novel, come to that. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Section one was about setting, location, and time period.
Section two moved onto characters. Section three was about getting conflict
into the story. Section four was about the final twist, and the resolution. <o:p></o:p></div>
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In all of my writing, I find that by sticking to those four
ideas I can usually come up with a story, vague though it may be. Once those
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So the workshop went well, and everyone went away with the
plot to a story that they could finish up at home. Some of them were certainly
impressive (one that sticks in my mind was about mermaids on the moon) and I
hope that I get to read them at some point. <o:p></o:p></div>
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This morning I wanted to start a new short story. I’ve been
freelancing and writing blog posts and articles about this and that for a
while, and my fiction has been neglected. I thought it was time to get started
again. <o:p></o:p></div>
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But instead of starting, I got stuck. I had a vague idea
about roadside cherry stands and how no one ever seems to stop there, but that
was all. And then I remembered my worksheet. I think I’ll fill it in and see
what happens… hopefully a story will emerge! <o:p></o:p></div>
Lisamarie Lambhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13044677750551861221noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2928266058320305901.post-9316122321822100322014-08-03T20:21:00.003+01:002014-08-03T20:21:45.192+01:00Ruined Castles<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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a bracing (read absolutely icy and face freezingly windy) countryside walk, and
I wasn’t particularly expecting to find anything much at all. All around me, as
I walked away from the generous car park (there were only two cars in it, and
one of them was mine), through the kissing gate, and on into no man’s land,
there was stillness.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">It didn’t matter that I could hear the noise from the
dual carriageway that I had just taken a detour off to explore this place. It
didn’t even matter than I could see a motorway across the wide expanse of field
in front of me. At that moment, in that second, it was peaceful, tranquil, and
my heart suddenly felt light with the joy of being alive. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Have you ever felt that? I don’t think it’s a feeling
that can last too long – it’s not exactly happiness, but rather a completely
‘other’ feeling of infinity combined with the absolutely knowledge of
mortality. It happens every now and then, unexpectedly, and for various reasons
and this, standing in the middle of a field, surrounded by far off movement and
other people’s busy lives, was one of those times for me. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">It fades after a time, but it’s wonderful while it
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<span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Once I began moving again, I followed a little path that
ran across a couple of fields, through some more gates, and down a winding
track that crossed a one lane road. On the other side was a more substantial
gate, and some goats that stared at me, unblinking, completely still. I
hesitated at that point. Yes, the sign on the gate told me that this was a
public footpath and that I was welcome to continue my journey (as long as I
remembered to shut the gate), but it also warned me about the possibility of
coming face to face with wildlife, namely sheep and goats. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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though daring me to carry on. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I might have turned back then, unsure of the temperament
of goats, but something caught my eye. An old stone wall looped around the top
of a small mound, and I could see holes that might have once been windows,
perhaps a door. So I ventured onward, desperately to satiate my curiosity, no
longer caring about the goats. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I reached the wall and discovered, remarkably, that this
was a ruined castle. There was an information board to tell me that fact, the
name of the place, and how long it had been there. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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touching the stones, just imagining what could have happened where I was
standing all those centuries ago. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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